Community—look out for your neighbours—especially during the holiday season
Alone, we can do so little; together, we can do so much.
Helen Keller
I grew up in a collective culture where everyone was connected to the rhythms of our apartment building, our extended families, and even the family living down the street.
Back home in Singapore, the government-built apartment blocks are intentionally designed to foster community. Unlike many places in the West, you don’t need a fob to access your floor. Personally, I love this—it means you actually see your neighbours, say hello, and keep an eye on the children as they come and go.
My mom could pop next door to borrow sugar, and the auntie five doors down would watch over us after school until my mother returned from work.
I miss that sense of camaraderie—caring for one another without being asked and without expecting anything in return. That is what builds community. It creates a quiet confidence that if something goes wrong, you are never truly alone.
It’s especially important to care for your community during the winter months and the holiday season, when many people feel isolated.
Do you know your neighbours? Do you know what they do, or the names of their children?
Start small. Greet someone in the elevator. If your neighbour is a newcomer or a senior, find out if they have plans for Christmas. Maybe share some baking with them.
When it’s cold and icy, check whether your elderly neighbour needs help picking up groceries. Sure, they can order online—but the human connection often matters more.
If you feel lonely during this holiday season, please remember to look after yourself and ask for help if you need it.
Wishing you a safe and happy winter.
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